Why 90% of Your Problems Don't solve?

Meet me.

I’ve been abandoned since the day I was born. Every time I show up, the one who created me looks away. They raise their hands and say, “Not mine. Nothing to do with me.”

You know the interesting part. I'm everywhere. People love to bring me in their lives and then ignore me.

Would you like to hear my story?

When I first arrived, I was small. Almost invisible.

But no one paid attention.

And that’s how I grew.

Day by day, moment by moment, I got bigger… and bigger.

Whether they accept me or not, I will wrap myself around them.

Because you know right, "Ignored problems don’t die. They multiply."

I’ll tell you one of the stories. There was a cute couple.

They started sweet.

“Good morning, love. “Drive safe, I miss you already.”

Then one day, when one partner felt the other wasn’t managing the finances well, that was the moment I arrived in their house.

I was tiny at the time.

But instead of facing me, they denied I even existed. And instead, they brought my friend Conflict to the table.

“Why can’t you ever do one thing right?”

“You’re useless.”

From there, Conflict and I started feeding on them. Slowly, we grew.

Do you know how I grow?

I grow every time they ignore me.

Instead of trying to talk and ask me, “Hey, what do I need to do to get you out of here?” They run and disown me.

Come, I’ll tell you a secret.

You know there few exceptions, very few people you can say top 1%. The moment they come across me, they don’t run. They look into my eyes immediately and ask: “There must be a reason you’re here.

What went wrong? What part did I play in bringing you here?

Let me see what I can do to send you back where you belong.”

They simply talk to me.

And until they get everything out of me, they keep talking, working, digging deeper.

But they’re few.

Rest of them.

They just let me feed in their head. And slowly, I invite my friends: anxiety, worry, health problems, financial struggles.

Oh, I have a long guest list. We love throwing parties.

If they’re driving, I whisper in their head.

If they’re sleeping, I slip into their dreams.

The more they run, the more I chase.

It’s fun, really.

The more they avoid me, the stronger I become.

Their fear feeds me.

Their silence fuels me.

What is the secret of solving me (Problem)?

1- Acknowledge me: Oh, God! First, accept that I exist.

2-Own up: If I'm there someone must have bought me. I know a bit scary, but since I got here. You have to admit, the part you played. And that actually shrinks me.

3-Now you are on a path, talk to me, sometimes even I don't know how to go back. but when you talk, we come up with a solution.

Actually, solution is caretaker of me, she takes me away whenever she comes. And it works out somehow.

4-Take actions. The moment you start to take actions my caretaker Solution comes in and take me away.

Otherwise, I could multiply and have a party with you. I like to grow big no see.

So, I’ll ask you this: Are you feeding your problems, or are you finally facing them?

Face your problems while they’re small—or they’ll own you.

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